At the end of the day the construct of gender as defined by whiteness is designed to affirm and defend white supremacy and antiblackness and the majority of white women, cis or trans, embrace that role, see it as integral to their womanhood, even if they'll never admit it out loud. Cis or trans individual white women could make the decision to make divesting from antiblackness, white supremacy, and patriarchy central to their gender identity, but most of them choose not to, but will wail about their oppressions when you point out their complicity. Tl;dr:
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