me announcing our relationship on my private, while admitting that it is "socially awkward"

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   aoife (nbsp@snug.moe)'s status on Wednesday, 21-Feb-2024 19:29:42 JST aoife

   lustlion@mk.lustli.online, aka Ari, fka Sachi, is a zoophile, a groomer, and headmate to a self-described "minor-attracted person". it has taken advantage of at least two minors, including me.
   
   me and Ari met on fedi on the summer of 2021, when i was 16, and it almost 21. it was my first real relationship, so i didn't know what to expect, and what red flags to look for. almost immediately we started sharing nudes and engaging in erotic roleplay. i unfortunately don't have any backups of the XMPP messages we exchanged back then, but i will point you to the now-defunct lewd accounts sfr@rats-at.work and sfr@sweet.succubi.services, which may be viewed if your instance is old enough to have cached it before the server went down years ago. no nudes were posted on that account, at least not publicly, for legal reasons, but i was very outwardly sexual towards anyone who would reciprocate it, no matter the age gap.
   
   in march of 2022, Ari confessed to me that it is a zoophile, and shared with me a forum it found for exchanging pornography involving live feral animals. i was revolted, but i felt locked in, and couldn't muster the courage to cut our relationship off. months later i would talk with eris@rats-at.work, later known as errante, a known pedophile and the operator of rot.gives among others, and they would convince me to join a matrix group chat they made for the sole purpose of discussing and exchanging animal pornography, where Ari was a member.
   
   now, i must admit, i said some vile things while in this group chat. a fair bit of them after i was already eighteen years old. but i believe that i was taken advantage of, had my world view warped, and was conditioned to believe that this is okay. i regret ever saying yes to any of this.
   
   eventually, i left the group chat as i realized what i was doing, but still kept in contact with Ari, since at that point we've already been dating for over a year, and i was scared to let go.
   
   in june of 2023, a few of Ari's partners formed a discord group chat. the original purpose of it is irrelevant to the story, but it eventually turned into a discord server for Ari's polycule. in it, you'll find a familiar face: Eve Melody Summer. we'll get back to her later.
   
   one of Ari's newer partners at the time was, just like me, 18. Ari was well into 22. another was barely seventeen. all of us had very sexual relationships with Ari, and sometimes, if it was watching, with each other. that server has since been deleted after the Eve Summer situation, and no traces of it remain.
   
   ooh, right, let's talk about Eve! Ari has continued to be friends with Eve (later Rachael) long after shit hit the fan, occasionally telling me it had talked with her over Discord. when Eve came back to fedi on rosaline.systems, that instance was allowlisted, and one of the only instances allowed: misskey.heonian.org. Eve followed Ari and boosted a few of its posts, which would not have been possible had Ari blocked Eve.