Screenshot of a comment from a github thread on Bridgy. It reads as follows: network effect and default-bias aren't a reason to not ask for consent. Choosing to not ask for consent because you know the answer might be "no" is the mindset of a rapist. Ryan, you are acting under the mindset of a rapist. I'm not exaggerating, please get therapy. You are not the decider of what's good for other people. You are not superior. You have no right to to say "it's convenient for me to violate the autonomy of others. Cut your losses, accept that you fucked up, and get help
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