Never forget that almost every guideline and most court rulings in Germany's medical system does not have a concept of being non binary. Transition is always seen as something binary, with the goal of getting as close as possible to the "other gender". Almost all of the guidelines health insurances use word it that way. Do not tell your doctors that you are non-binary. Don't do it. You are allowed to lie, you need to lie to get gender affirmative medicine.
where do y'all host your instances? my (private) server (not this one) is at hetzner rn, and for hopefully now obvious reasons i would not want to host an instance on there homeserver would probably mostly work, but I'd have to route the traffic through somewhere, which seems like a hassle so what options are there?
Es ist der 03. Juni und meine Briefwahlunterlagen sind immer noch nicht da. Was macht diese Post eigentlich aktuell? Warum brauchen fucking Briefe (mit Prio!) von AT <> DE inzwischen +10 Tage??
Imagine calling your "for everyone" dating* app T4T, then *afterwards* looking on the internet what T4T means, and THEN asking queer orgs to please stop using T4T or at least put an ad for them there
I'm laughing so hard rn
*Edit: It's not even a dating app, it's an app where you can offer/look for paid dates
I've been kinda struggling with parts of my identity. I've been leaning into this whole puppy-thing a lot and that just feels right. Being human does not. And my issue with that is that a part of me is like "no, you can't do that. You're a human and you can't change that. If you disagree people will think you're a freak or stupid" And another part of me is like "This is *exactly* how we used to feel about the idea of wanting to be a girl as a kid, and look where we are now"
anyway if we're friends and you see me anywhere you should - pet me and/or - ruffle my hair and/or - rub my belly (if I'm laying down) and/or - call me a cute puppy (or similar)