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@pwm @prettygood yea, I don't see them either, it's why I was banging my head against trying to get BOSH and/or websockets working instead. The TTL force-set itself to 30 min, and it has been 4 hours since I messed with this shit.

But guess the only option is to host a DNS server and point namecheap at that. Sigh.

@pwm @prettygood can just... Use HTTP at the very least for this.
And no, I won't get used to stuff I don't like. I will either fix it or loudly complain about it (or both).
And this isn't about not liking things, this is about this just being obnoxious for no reason. Why do I have to host a DNS server for a chat protocol? Insane.

@pwm @prettygood I hate this so much

@prettygood That's only for BOSH and WebSocket tho

I want the regular TCP protocol

@prettygood Prosody

Is there some way to get XMPP to read .well-known/<something> instead of having to deal with SRV records?

Boosts plz :neobot_bottom:

There seems (?) to be a way if I wanna use websockets or "BOSH" but no I just wanna do regular XMPP

TIL that being asked if I am over 18 and treated different depending on the answer makes me scared and uncomfortable, and feels similar as being misgendered
Pretty certain that it has something to do with my trauma, of how much I got abused as a minor, with everyone saying that the justification for the abuse is that I was a minor, and it's only natural for minors to be abused
So I kinda feel unsafe around anyone that cares if I am a minor or not. Since presumably they'd join in on the abuse, had they been in the position to do so, or would they be given the choice of either joining on the abuse or suffering legal consequences. Maybe I am overgeneralizing, idk. I think anyone would, if they would go thru the same thing as I have.

Being asked this was always something that made me extremely uncomfortable, and ig if I am already not doing good it is quite bad.

To be clear, idrc if someone asks cuz they are curious and wouldn't treat me different depending on the answer. Not like my age is a secret.

@hellomiakoda study the allists and try to predict their wants or avoid getting into situations where they matter

Difficult :(

@hellomiakoda Oh?

@hellomiakoda ah

dmesg --follow should work (if ran as root)

Additionally, journalctl --boot=-1 should print the log from before the system was rebooted

@hellomiakoda got the flag for dmesg wrong, it's follow, not watch, sorry

@hellomiakoda out of memory warnings of what kind?

@hellomiakoda wait, if it locks up, you are able to ssh into it while it's locked up?

@hellomiakoda ah

Anything in logs from past boots after a lockup?

@hellomiakoda unsure I follow what "pops up in the OS" means

@hellomiakoda all I can think of is Tuba somehow causing this by running out of memory or something

@hellomiakoda that is really weird

systemctl and systemd-cgls list units and cgroup units respectively, but

Are you sure you didn't change some persistent thing somewhere ? It is extremely strange if this command managed to do anything that persists across reboots

@hellomiakoda that is really weird

Like, that is not persistent, restarting init (reboot or kexec) will yeet it for sure, but like, so should killing the shell running that or restarting the user service manager

@varx I am doing this but with a company
Good idea with the fursuits, noted!