I've got, after many years of trial and error quite a nice home setup now
VPN #Tailscale (was #netbird as a Network Overlay and Always on VPN on my phone/tablet
DNS - #PIHole backed out to Cloudflare
HTTPS - SSL on Self hosted front ends using NGINX Proxy Manager
Log Monitor - #Graylog
Monitoring - Self hosted (no cloud) #Netdata
Alerts go into my #discord Channel
#K8s cluster running various software
Mailserver hosted using #Mailcow
#Nextcloud for Files and General stuff i was doing with Google One
#Grafana/Prometheus/alert Manager monitoring the K8s stack (mainly for testing things for work)
#Gitea for all the code which deploys this
#Proxmox for Virtual servers
I've got most of this deployable using ansible, I still need to better secret management with Vault.
Anyone want to share their setup?