Hi. Claiming that nonbinary people, neopronouns and micro labels "make us look bad", insisting that one must medically transition or pass to be validated as a trans person, denying asexuals (and many other identities) access to the community, forcing heteronormative and cisnormative standards on queer people, denouncing queers in straight-passing relationships, infighting, policing, gatekeeping and fracturing our own community is just doing the oppressors' job for them. They want us turned against each other, because we are easier to pick off that way.
They will come for you too, no matter how well you try to assimilate. They already hate you.