Notices by Gwendolyn (gwendolyn@mastodon.cloud), page 3

All the talk about "hook up culture" implies that the young are promiscuous.

Every generation always believes that the previous one was much more prudish than them.

Currently the opposite is true.

Gens Y and Z are sex-phobic Puritans.

In 2023 everybody desperately wants to pretend that teenagers are small children and have no sexuality at all. So podcasters watching a TV show from 1991 are dumbfounded.

https://youtu.be/MCRNWRMB2Aw
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Child beauty pageants don't make anyone pedophilic. Just like gay porn doesn't turn straight men into homosexuals.

#ChildBeautyPageants #pedophilic #gay #porn #gayporn #straight #pedo #pedophilia #straightmen #homosexuals #BeautyPageants #Beauty #Pageant

So-called ''Romeo and Juliet'' laws are a terrible idea. Here's why:

#Romeo #Juliet #RomeoAndJuliet #CloseInAgeExceptions #AgeOfConsent #AgeOfConsentLaws #AgeGap #Teen #TeenSex

How sex-phobic ancient god-mongers leveraged the phrase "consenting adults" to power...

The Sexual Counter-Revolution

https://tube.xy-space.de/w/j55ZcEKQh4B4ywLV2Ef683

If you live in a society that has trained 16 year olds to be vulnerable to abuse, then that society has to radically change the way it raises its children.

16 year olds are not vulnerable by nature. Bad parenting causes that.

#RespectYoungAdults

Objectification is real, but it's also just an ordinary form of rudeness.

Some words, attitudes, and body language annoy us. That's part of living in society. Some men are assholes. That's just life. Decades of yapping about abstracts like "objectification" hasn't helped at all.

These guys studied 36 countries and published in 2020.

"Our findings do not provide evidence for substantial declines in mental well-being among adolescents."

That would indicate it's not an international problem, but just the USA is fucking up.

https://sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1054139X20300793

_"It has normalized the idea that young men and women are still children in need of constant handholding."

Today's infantilization of teenagers is a radical and very abnormal change in our society.

https://www.nysun.com/article/step-back-parents-your-college-student-can-handle-laundry-101

People younger than us are Puritans who are undoing the sexual revolution and it's making them them all super unhappy.

In that particular area the Hippies were the progressive ones, and Gen Z is a bunch of insane prudish Victorians.

We have an entire generation of 20 somethings right now going "but I don't feel like an adult"

not knowing that no such feeling exists, but all the while sure that self-infantilization is the right thing to do.

We love calling things creepy. Is that the right thing to do?

a rather long explanation of bullying and how you're probably not innocent in all this

https://youtu.be/HanxNTCXUc0 .

Age-Gap Hysteria is way out of control

(fun fact: there is zero evidence that there is anything harmful about age-gap relationships)

#StopTheHysteria

People in Mississippi are super Puritan and never talk about sex.

They have one of the highest teen pregnancy rates in the world.

'Cuz not being told about it does NOT mean you aren't interested and won't experiment on your own.

#RespectYoungAdults #StopNeoPuritanism

After puberty girls are women.

Some societies choose to infantilize adult females and call them girls despite becoming women years earlier.

It's disgusting and demeaning.

Anti-Teen Bigotry is real, and it's VILE. We need to relearn how to Respect Young Adults.

Don't accept hate.

https://tube.xy-space.de/w/nqfpUYk5a34gc741Ry5Q6T

#RespectYoungAdults #hate #bigots #bigotry #respect #YoungAdults #teens #teenagers #AntiTeenBigotry #dehumanize #dehumanization #Agency

_ "preteen" and "teen" have no scientific basis.

they're just some junk concepts society made up to degrade young people.

About 100 years ago Margaret Mead went to Samoa and lived with the people there. The Samoans had no adolescence. It didn't exist. When she described it they laughed at the silly weirdos who live in the USA.

Our culture created teen behavior. It is not innate.

Over the last 10 to 20 years Sex-Phobic Neo-Puritans have been very successfully pushing the narrative that the "dynamics" of an age gap relationship always lead to psychological manipulation.

This is patently false.

#StopTheHysteria #RespectYoungAdults

It's just clumsy wording

It's easy for people to mistake expanded opportunities to rake in enormous profits (satisfying natural human greed) for greed itself.

or they just write "greed" because it's shorter than "unregulated markets allowing anti-social levels of enrichment"