Notices by Gwendolyn (gwendolyn@mastodon.cloud)

The faulty equation is:

a certain percentage of people have a bad experience with x
(totally true)

therefore x *always* causes the same bad experience in every single case
(completely stupid)

Here in the US the definition of "underage" changes when you cross state lines. It is also a very different thing depending on whether you're talking about alcohol, sex, driving, working, voting, joining the military, etc.

be skeptical when somebody says "underage"

I was 17 when I had sex with my 23 year old boyfriend. I was not a child. It was not rape. There was nothing wrong with anything we did.

Idiots like Phil Mitchell have no right to rob anyone of bodily autonomy. They have no right to take away teenagers' agency.

Phil is dead wrong here.

These statistics are old,

but they show that the perpetrators of sexual assaults of teens are mostly other teens.

We have reduced our thinking to THE ONLY PERMITTED narrative, which says the perp must be a \"grown ass adult\"

Let's be honest about these things.

Miss Connecticut entered a beauty contest. She wanted people to look at her and think 'That young woman is sexy and beautiful'

Would you say she wanted to be sexualized?
Would you say she sexualized herself?
Is that bad?

being 10 or 20 years older does not give anyone magic brainwashing powers.

People get manipulated by people older and younger than them. They are taken advantage of by people of the same age too. Age is nowhere near the deciding factor here.

This is how we know "prey on" is bullshit

What happens when narratives collide?

https://youtu.be/3Rp-KIMzPMI
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After puberty (apx 14+) no one is a child. We used to respect that. Sometime in the late 90s, however, teens got reclassified as children. It is nonsense of course, but everyone in the US seems to believe it. Relegating teens to child status is abusive.

https://youtu.be/12J1f0Zqaqw

Respecting other people and being tolerant of their choices is sorely lacking in American culture.

It's part of our Puritanism. We all feel we have the right or even the duty to judge others' behavior.

and we get self-righteous pleasure from it, so we make excuses for doing it.

One of the main driving forces that shaped all of human culture is the fact that men are expendable.

Here's a screenshot of her disgusting bigotry.

We are having a huge mental health crisis among young adults aged 14-18 precisely because they are constantly demeaned, degraded & infantilized. Their basic civil rights are denied. They are constantly told to be afraid because they're idiots who are easily brainwashed and abused. They're told their brains won't work right for years...

Its abusive AF and nobody will acknowledge how harmful it is.

https://youtu.be/mP3P-svIX0s

If we really thought these people were retarded we never would have let them babysit our kids, or fight in Vietnam.

We know damned well their brains work just fine.

Criminalizing the sex lives of young adults (aka teenagers) is just really fucking stupid. It has huge costs and zero benefits.

If California's age of consent laws were strictly enforced half the population would be sex offenders by the time they turn 22.

The way we use language shapes the way we think.

Modern culture infantilizes young adults. Concepts like "minor" are used to quietly throw everyone under 18 into a group with small children. This tendency is very harmful.

It is widely believed that adulthood begins at age 25 because that's when we are neurologically fully developed.

But isn't it odd that everyone knows under 25s are children,

yet nobody anywhere has stopped them from working?

I mean, it's child labor. That's patently wrong.

but nobody cares.

(somebody is lying to themselves about brain development)

Anti-Teen Bigotry is real, and it's VILE. We need to relearn how to Respect Young Adults.

Don't accept hate.

https://tube.xy-space.de/w/nqfpUYk5a34gc741Ry5Q6T

#RespectYoungAdults #hate #bigots #bigotry #respect #YoungAdults #teens #teenagers #AntiTeenBigotry #dehumanize #dehumanization #Agency

After puberty humans are adults. Normal humans are sexually attracted to normal adults. There is no mystery here. There is no need for special terms for this totally boring concept.

Stigmatizing relationships between teens and 20 somethings prevents our young adults from getting the experience they need for adult life. It stunts their growth. Then we complain about them not doing well and sometimes choosing an abusive boyfriend? We created this problem.

The entire concept of "male gaze" is RadFem bullshit. The idea is that women are subjugated by visual contact with men.

Men see sexy bodies. Men, both gay and straight are aroused by sexy visual stimuli. This is in no way harmful to women.