Notices by golden retriever boyfriend :v_trans: (fluffypaws@froggie.gay)

btw if your cats like watching birds through the window, there's accounts on youtube that literally make videos of birds and squirrels and other small things for entertaining kitties

we have to protect our trans youth more than ever, btw

you do not have to be a trans man to go on testosterone. you do not have to be a trans woman to go on estrogen. whether you're intersex, non-binary, genderqueer, genderfluid, gender non-conforming, multigender, agender, any gender, if you want to go on hrt, you can. testosterone is not for men and estrogen is not for women, hormones are not gendered.

i gotta give jkr one thing: never before have i seen someone so efficiently cut off their own nose to spite their face. when it comes to exposing her bigotry, she did 99% of the work for us.

trans people are allowed to call their body parts whatever they please. it's not "cringy" or "delusional" or "unrealistic". it's our damn bodies. if it gives us euphoria that's a good thing. it doesn't fucking hurt or bother anyone if a non op trans guy wants to say he's got a dick or if a flat chested trans girl refers to her tits or if any non-binary or genderqueer person has weird or funny or made up terms for their body parts. it's not your damn business. it's actually really cool and also coming up with your own terms for your body to avoid dysphoria or cause euphoria? fuckin' awesome. period.

@ThePoetSky@tooters.org i have the graphic novel of the first one! yet to read it though

i need all fat people who want top surgery to know you are not too fat for top surgery. a competent surgeon and anesthesiologist team will make things work for you regardless of your size. if one doctor gives you shit about your weight or bmi or outright refuses to operate on you, get a second opinion. go to a second doctor. go to a third doctor. go to a million doctors until you get what you want. the dual combo of fatphobia and transphobia in medicine cannot keep us down. you do not need to be skinny to change your body how you want to change it. you do not need to be skinny for top surgery.

trans guy who finally figured out his name, about to come out in the funniest way to his friends: hey guys can i be frank with you all

gotta say i don't like how many "how to pass ftm" guides are straight up just like. be monotone and uninterested and don't engage in your "feminine" hobbies and don't wear bright colors and don't be polite and don't smile at people and don't show emotion ever. like how precisely is this a healthy thing to be teaching people (especially the young people these are often targeted at)??? i am a bubbly boy. a cheerful chap. a merry man. a good-humored guy. a glowing gent. a veritable ray of fucking sunshine and i am NOT toning that down!!!! fuck you!!!!!!!

“i’ll remember” is the adhd demon talking. you WON'T remember. write it down.

books to read instead of harry potter:

- percy jackson and the olympians by rick riordan
- all of the other books / series in the riordanverse
- the scholomance by naomi novik
- the inheritance cycle by christopher paolini
- the nsibidi scripts by nnedi okorafor
- the magicians by lev grossman

boost for visibility and feel free to comment more suggestions!

#books #reading #bookstodon

idk who popularised the narrative "i don't let my disability stop me" but it needs to be stomped on, pulverised by a meat grinder and then thrown into the depths of the sea never to be seen again.

it is by far the most popular ableist narrative and i see it so much and immediately just think i'm a bad person for not being able to 'get over' my disability despite the fact it's an incurable, permanent and severely disabling disability.

stop stop stop stop pushing the mindset that people have to persevere despite their disabilities in order to be a worthy person

leave me alone and let me be disabled in peace

autism: if something changes, i will cry.

adhd: if nothing changes, i will cry.

audhd: i will cry.

⚠️ MUTUAL AID REQUEST ⚠️

hey fedi, we ( two disabled trans people and four cats ) are moving to a new state in a month to start fresh as where we live now is becoming too expensive and generally just isn't a good place to live.

we have secured a place to live, but getting there is going to cost a fair amount. if you can spare any $$ to go toward hiring movers to take our stuff up plus gas for us to drive our cats up, we would really appreciate it 💛

https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/werewolfapologist

#MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #TransCrowdfund #QueerCrowdfund #DisabilityCrowdfund

trans people who are anti t4t make me so sad. because beyond just not knowing what being t4t means, the fact that they believe that t4t is just being a chaser is indicative of a deeper issue, being that cis people have ingrained the idea that we are unfuckable and unloveable, disgusting by nature, and that anybody who would voice attraction to us, a step further, ONLY CHOOSE TO DATE TRANS PEOPLE, would be a pervert with a disgusting fetish who won't see them as equal.

that's not what t4t is.

t4t is the rejection of the idea that we are inherently disgusting, just because we are in the eyes of a cisnormative society.

t4t is the understanding that we are safer and stronger together as a community than apart.

t4t is seeing your trans boyfriend try on clothes from your old boy wardrobe that you hated growing up but now your least favorite shirt is your favorite because its the perfect shade of red that brings out his eyes.

t4t is teaching your trans girlfriend that has been scared to do her own makeup how you've learned from other trans women, who learned from other trans women, who learned from other trans women.

t4t is doing your testosterone shots together and kissing each others sticks after you put the bandaid on.

t4t is holding the door for your trans girlfriend and showing her the chivalry she didn't get from her dad growing up, but its ok because you can show her now.

t4t is being on the phone with your partner who just came out as trans/non-binary after seeing you, YOU, live your truth, and them asking you to help them find a new name, the perfect name for them, and you hope they'll carry that part of you forever.

you are trans and that is beautiful. your transness is beautiful. trans love is beautiful. don't let ANYBODY make you feel unworthy of sex or love. THAT'S what being t4t means.

the last tv show you watched is now getting a crossover with the last video game you played.

what is the unholy abomination that has been created?

don't date people who make you feel like you have to hide your plushies

"isn't polyamory basically just cheating?". common misconception! polyamory is not about cheating on ur partners. polyamory is about gathering enough people to have a dnd party.

i’m sick of love triangles in media. everyone’s polyamorous now. i have decided. stop fighting and just all kiss each other