Notices by sim@shitposter.world, page 6
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@Jain @kaia @mametsuko Is she the bread spirit?
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@blaaablaaaa @kaia Do it and then tell us how you got on.
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@kaia Ooh... that looks like it came out really nice! I wish that I could get into baking bread.
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Are you baking anything this week, fedi? What is it if so?
If you are buying, then what are you buying?
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Hot choco sesh done.
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I really hope that I can keep down my food today.
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@inscius @Flick @MummaBear They came over on the boats mostly too. Even though they weren't at war.
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I love when I think about something in my head, and then randomly finish my thought by saying it out loud and just the out of context aspect of what I said if anyone heard it is funny to me.
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@Ree Fair enough. Perhaps consider it as learning how to be emotionally resilient? I hope that it works out for you.
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@Ree If you are seeing a therapist, might it be worth drawing something that demonstrates your current understanding of emotions and then another for social stuff? Then they might be able to help you fill in the gaps. A lot of this stuff is also going out and experiencing this, having a trusted person that knows who can lead and help you to understand this. Moon seems to be supportive so you might be able to ask him about some situations, at least on here.
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@Ree I have been there. It is important to recognise your emotions and to meet your needs, this is a part of having emotional resilience. But this doesn't mean that you lash out at other people, that you tell everyone what is happening. You need to find a few people that you can trust to talk through things until you get better at recognising this in yourself. When you can do this check yourself then it gets easier. You may want to see a professional or read a self-help book for some exercises on this and see what is helpful.
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@Ree Hiding your emotions doesn't make you weak. It is wisdom because not everyone has your best interests in mind and you have to be careful with who you allow in. It's also important for men to be emotionally resilient so that when the situation calls for it, they are able to think during a crisis and they can take the necessary actions required of them to keep them and those around them safe. This is particularly important when they have a wife and children to take care of. I think a lot of guys come at this from the wrong angle but it's not wrong to learn to be a stoic for example. It helps you to focus on the things that you do have control over rather than spiraling over what you cannot control. That is an important skill to have.
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Be warned.... I just don't have high tolerance for bullshit these days when I have my own shit to deal with. I don't need other peoples shit and hangups. You're not my kin, you're not my tribe. Like stop. You are being overfamiliar. Get your own shit sorted out.
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@hakui It's good to see your drawings. Thanks for sharing with us.
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One way that I don't get envious when other people have something that I want is by recognising that often I can continue to strive towards having what I want too. It's not a zero-sum game. Also, if someone else can have what I want then it is possible to have what I want. To achieve that dream. That's a good takeaway to have.
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If you can surround yourself with people that are achieving things then I think it is a good motivator to go out there and achieve your own dreams. To lift each other up.
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@sun That poor wallet. :')
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@sun Why did you buy that one?
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@sun At least you didn't add too many more to your list.
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@sun In general or today alone?
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