@eris @dangerdyke I mean that's how patriarchy is constructed? There's no real choice involved outside of choosing to participate in that structure, which is what I'm criticizing. Lot of trans guys choose to act in this way and the ones that don't don't meet that standard and wouldn't be acting in a way that is standard in that structure. The concept of patriarchy is in and of itself transphobic. My position is not. My position is moving away from utilizing concepts and structures that have this inherently hierarchic logic.