@witchling for me it's like, I practice witchcraft and most of what exists for that is shit like Wicca that I don't vibe with. a lot of which also has terfy elements since the stuff I do specifically is related to Hekate/Diana triformis, one of the most notably cringe terfy strains of witchy stuff. but yeah I imagine even if you follow something more established it's hard to find a community you vibe with, esp if you're queer/trans