@eris I wouldn't go that far but I think it's sorta stupid when people do this. I would never e-date anyone again unless it was like, someone I really REALLY connected with where I would be willing to take a chance on some kind of all or nothing LDR. otherwise it's just like, what's the fucking point. I know with the vast majority of people it's gonna be some shit where maybe we could have some fun for a few months or have some kinda casual undefined thing or whatever, but letting it drag on any longer than that would be a mistake and with online stuff you can't really do anything else other than take a leap of faith that it'll eventually become a real relationship