@lxo I think I’ve seen someone mention a situation like the one you’ve described, but in a way that seemed to allude it wasn’t the only example of a behavior people were discussing?
I don’t need “receipts” (i.e. direct links, direct mentions), but it’s so helpful when someone is open to describing the situation as is. I won’t deny I did what I’m criticizing many times, but during my time off Mastodon, I realized I miss some directness in the way we speak and discuss current and past events.