@s2208 @Barbecued_Lemons i actually know a guy who was a turbovirgin his entire life but he stayed the straight and narrow, bought a house, built up his career, really got his shit together. in his 30s he ended up meeting a woman a bit older than him (similarly she had no children and had never been wed), they got married and wouldn't you know it she gave birth to two beautiful kids for him. life is wild sometimes, man.