@OldM8 honestly just be yourself. Lifes whatever you make it out to be. Sure thats a bit cliche to say but it honestly helps. Coming from someone constantly paranoid about little things this may sound a bit hypocritical but like: dont worry about what other people think about you as long as you try to be a nice person irl. Like whats kept me from going off the deep end is i know my friends (irl friends anyways) love me (platonically) and wanna see me succeed. Like as long as you treat ppl with like a mutual level of respect you're honestly golden. Also you are human you can take my sord to heart or take it with as many grains of salt as you wish. That is all up to you. My existence online is inconsequential in the grand scheme of things. While its scart to be eventually forgotten about you will still be remembered by those close to you. Though part of me wonders why im saying all of this...catharsis maybe? Also Dw about what other think too much as its a brainpoison and youll most likely never meet most of these ppl. I block and mute ppl all the time for the same reason. Sometimes i mute instances too.... Either way while im very close to some ppl online its typically inconsequential to cut ppl off if you dislike them
So tldr stay on fedi and just like chill out be yourself or whatever dw about what most ppl think on here e