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transfem leftists when they fuck up: "I apologize for misstepping. I realize what I did wrong and I'll try my best not to make the same mistake again in the future."

the community response: "you are a lowly, worthless worm of a person. you have done irreparable harm to countless people, though I dare not ask them to say so themselves for fear of placing more undue burden on them, so I'm just going to assume the worst and say that you've basically Done a Holocaust. we expect you to humbly and without reservation submit yourself to whatever accountability and reparations process the community requires on behalf of the people who have been the recipients of your immeasurable injurious deeds, up to and including permanent exile from this community. I hope you're pleased with yourself, fash."

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TME queer and cishet leftists when they fuck up: "I'm sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings, but I will not apologize for continuing to aggressively advocate for marginalized people."

the community response: "OMG you're so brave and such a good ally! *we're* sorry for ever doubting *you!* shine on, you brilliant diamond!"