@ned @deprecated_ii @Aether all i'm saying is that if i was in a relationship for 2 years and everything was actually going really well, and i had even talked to my girl about a threesome or something like that (i wouldn't, just putting myself into the situation), i wouldn't disappear after she suggested something she thought would be kinky and i didn't want to do it. i'd say no, and ask her to respect that, and if the relationship was really good then she would. doing this is really immature, if in fact the relationship was doing fine.
the alternative is that the relationship WASN'T good and so this nigga used this as an excuse to get out instead of just talking to her like an adult should. he just ran from his problems.