I have many many friends (all female) who now identify as trans or non binary. Every single one of them seem to intentionally look as ugly as possible. It’s like they are going for butch and just go for weird instead. And the eyes are always so dead. It’s absolutely tragic. There was this one girl. She was absolutely beautiful and now she looks like she is absolutely haunted. To be fair I suspect the majority had abuse especially sexual but oh god it’s so sad. It hardly seems like a wonderful advertisement for your movement when you come out ten times worse and sadder.