@Impaler We still have instincts, and most people lack the ability to brainwash them away. A guy, say, a year in breaking down into a weeping, blubbering mess, sobbing in your lap for a full hour as he recounts being molested by his teacher WILL have an effect in your head. A part of you will (somewhat rightfully) feel like he’s not reliable when survival is on the line. And then you just feel differently.
Maybe you notice, but most people don’t. They don’t put it into words, they just feel and act, pulling away and getting inexplicably irritated by every little thing he does. You’ll start to be impatient at the way he asks you for permission instead of doing things, or get the ‘ick’ when he sounds all submissive when he’s dealing with a stronger man. You’ll feel like he’s just more effeminate and weak, and you’ll stop feeling positive towards him. That’s your deep programming disentangling you from being bound with a guy who will get you and your children slaughtered by stronger tribes whose men arent’ blubbering pussies.