@gsuberland @MrDOS In principle I agree, but the user-hostile aspect here is that it offers you a click-through way to turn on a dangerous behavior with no warning that it's dangerous or indication where you'd go to turn it back off.
If enabling focus-stealing was something you had to go into settings yourself and explicitly enable, sure, that's giving the user the freedom to shoot themselves in the foot if they really want to, and that's fine. It's popping up the offer to switch that on that's not fine.