Sidenote I'm glad the "queer is a SLUR sweaty?!" discourse seems to be over. Adding letters to LGBT is not a winning proposition and I love how inclusive it is, just, anything not "normal" falls under it
"um but it literally is a slur??"
1) So is everything they ever have and ever will call us who cares
2) google "reclaimed slurs"
3) "we're here we're queer get used to it" is literally the most well known protest chant in history. You can't bury that because you're uncomfy