Having conversations with my brother who is recovering from the trauma of a toxic marriage & suffering severe autistic burnout & explaining to him that his 10 year old does NOT actually have to be understanding of him & why he can't be the father she feels she needs.<\/p>
*I'm* understanding & empathetic towards him, but his daughter does not have to pretend to be unaffected just because he's doing the best he can.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/117388491894010054","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-10-05:objectType=thread:nonce=5a00f4023972e445","notice_info":{"local_id":"13241919","source":"ActivityPub","repeat_of":"13241608"}},"published":"2026-10-05T15:11:34+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"title":"GreenSkyOverMe repeated a notice by artemis","verb":"share","url":"https:\/\/ohai.social\/users\/GreenSkyOverMe\/statuses\/117388526003939897\/activity"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis","displayName":"Artemis","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-original-tmp20241218214212.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-48-20241218225654.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-24-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"113159"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"artemis","displayName":"Artemis","note":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot"}},"content":"
He did decide to have a child he wasn't actually equipped to raise with a woman he was locked in a mutually harmful marriage with.<\/p>
It was a somewhat coerced choice: the culture he was raised in *demands* people have children.<\/p>
It was still a choice, & his daughter has been through a lot of trauma & disruption in her life, & SHE is not obligated to give HIM sympathy.<\/p>
I'm sorry to say it, but kids don't have to forgive their parents for the choices they made, even if they were \"doing their best\"<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-10-14:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/117388491904965867","object":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/117388491904965867","objectType":"note","content":"
He did decide to have a child he wasn't actually equipped to raise with a woman he was locked in a mutually harmful marriage with.<\/p>
It was a somewhat coerced choice: the culture he was raised in *demands* people have children.<\/p>
It was still a choice, & his daughter has been through a lot of trauma & disruption in her life, & SHE is not obligated to give HIM sympathy.<\/p>
I'm sorry to say it, but kids don't have to forgive their parents for the choices they made, even if they were \"doing their best\"<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/117388491904965867","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/117388491894010054","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/117388491894010054"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-10-05:objectType=thread:nonce=5a00f4023972e445","notice_info":{"local_id":"13241918","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-10-05T15:11:34+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/117388491904965867"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis","displayName":"Artemis","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-original-tmp20241218214212.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-48-20241218225654.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-24-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"113159"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"artemis","displayName":"Artemis","note":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot"}},"content":"
Having conversations with my brother who is recovering from the trauma of a toxic marriage & suffering severe autistic burnout & explaining to him that his 10 year old does NOT actually have to be understanding of him & why he can't be the father she feels she needs.<\/p>
*I'm* understanding & empathetic towards him, but his daughter does not have to pretend to be unaffected just because he's doing the best he can.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-10-14:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/117388491894010054","object":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/117388491894010054","objectType":"note","content":"
Having conversations with my brother who is recovering from the trauma of a toxic marriage & suffering severe autistic burnout & explaining to him that his 10 year old does NOT actually have to be understanding of him & why he can't be the father she feels she needs.<\/p>
*I'm* understanding & empathetic towards him, but his daughter does not have to pretend to be unaffected just because he's doing the best he can.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/117388491894010054","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-10-05:objectType=thread:nonce=5a00f4023972e445","notice_info":{"local_id":"13241608","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-10-05T13:48:34+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/117388491894010054"}],"links":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/conversation\/6733375","rel":"alternate","type":"text\/html"}]}