I met my husband when I was twenty five.
His easy smile, sense of humor and good looks were hard to resist. I knew right away that we would be great friends.
His biggest drawback was all of the other women chasing him around. I didn't have time for games and he understood that about me.
We chose each other on purpose.
Over forty years later he is still easy to love.
The only other female chasing him lately is Summer and I'm ok with that and so is he.
How lucky we are to share so much for so long.
Still making each other laugh.
What more could we want?
The three of us watched the fog roll up the hill this evening.
Together still.
Feels right.
Romance equals love equals us.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-10-05:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/NorcalGma2\/statuses\/117375014870006450","object":{"id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/NorcalGma2\/statuses\/117375014870006450","objectType":"note","content":"
I met my husband when I was twenty five.
His easy smile, sense of humor and good looks were hard to resist. I knew right away that we would be great friends.
His biggest drawback was all of the other women chasing him around. I didn't have time for games and he understood that about me.
We chose each other on purpose.
Over forty years later he is still easy to love.
The only other female chasing him lately is Summer and I'm ok with that and so is he.
How lucky we are to share so much for so long.
Still making each other laugh.
What more could we want?
The three of us watched the fog roll up the hill this evening.
Together still.
Feels right.
Romance equals love equals us.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@NorcalGma2\/117375014870006450","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-10-03:objectType=thread:nonce=85b4ba989d4d082b","notice_info":{"local_id":"13232430","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-10-03T04:15:55+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@NorcalGma2\/117375014870006450"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-stream.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-mini.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"43116"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone.","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","note":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone."}},"content":"