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@joannaholman<\/a> yeah I feel like people who like shopping and thrifting don\u2019t understand that not everybody does<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-28:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323967093215870","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323967093215870","objectType":"note","content":"

@joannaholman<\/a> yeah I feel like people who like shopping and thrifting don\u2019t understand that not everybody does<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323967093215870","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/aus.social\/users\/joannaholman\/statuses\/117323950986172611","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201081"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/aus.social\/users\/joannaholman"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-24:objectType=thread:nonce=458352e0500aa83f","notice_info":{"local_id":"13201085","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-09-24T03:47:55+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323967093215870"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/aus.social\/users\/joannaholman","displayName":"Joanna Holman","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/138863-original-tmp20250817034102.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/138863-96-20250819234227.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/138863-48-20250817155617.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/138863-24-20250819234227.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"138863"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/138863-96-20250819234227.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Bird nerd. Also has thoughts on books, Melbourne happenings, music and culture with bonus architecture, and cute animal pictures.","url":"https:\/\/aus.social\/@joannaholman","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"joannaholman","displayName":"Joanna Holman","note":"Bird nerd. Also has thoughts on books, Melbourne happenings, music and culture with bonus architecture, and cute animal pictures."}},"content":"

@skinnylatte<\/a> oh man, people say this about plus sizes too but the plus size selection at thrift stores is even worse than normal stores because once you\u2019ve found a decent item that fits in plus sizes, you wear it until it\u2019s worn out most of the time.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-28:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/aus.social\/users\/joannaholman\/statuses\/117323950986172611","object":{"id":"https:\/\/aus.social\/users\/joannaholman\/statuses\/117323950986172611","objectType":"note","content":"

@skinnylatte<\/a> oh man, people say this about plus sizes too but the plus size selection at thrift stores is even worse than normal stores because once you\u2019ve found a decent item that fits in plus sizes, you wear it until it\u2019s worn out most of the time.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201081","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323928747929400","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323928747929400"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-24:objectType=thread:nonce=458352e0500aa83f","notice_info":{"local_id":"13201081","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-09-24T03:47:45+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201081"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-stream.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-mini.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"43116"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone.","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","note":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone."}},"content":"

@joannaholman<\/a> ooh I can imagine!!<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-28:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323964485791886","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323964485791886","objectType":"note","content":"

@joannaholman<\/a> ooh I can imagine!!<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201083","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/aus.social\/users\/joannaholman\/statuses\/117323961124909412","url":"https:\/\/aus.social\/@joannaholman\/117323961124909412"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/aus.social\/users\/joannaholman"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-24:objectType=thread:nonce=458352e0500aa83f","notice_info":{"local_id":"13201083","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-09-24T03:47:44+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201083"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/aus.social\/users\/joannaholman","displayName":"Joanna Holman","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/138863-original-tmp20250817034102.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/138863-96-20250819234227.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/138863-48-20250817155617.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/138863-24-20250819234227.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"138863"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/138863-96-20250819234227.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Bird nerd. Also has thoughts on books, Melbourne happenings, music and culture with bonus architecture, and cute animal pictures.","url":"https:\/\/aus.social\/@joannaholman","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"joannaholman","displayName":"Joanna Holman","note":"Bird nerd. Also has thoughts on books, Melbourne happenings, music and culture with bonus architecture, and cute animal pictures."}},"content":"

@skinnylatte<\/a> Slightly under packed for a recent trip to Singapore and that turned out to be the weirdest shopping experience I\u2019ve ever had. One of the only places selling plus sizes I could find was in an otherwise abandoned dark mall in the basement of a hotel with intense back room vibes. Somehow almost everything was $2 and nothing in the store matched anything else<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-28:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/aus.social\/users\/joannaholman\/statuses\/117323961124909412","object":{"id":"https:\/\/aus.social\/users\/joannaholman\/statuses\/117323961124909412","objectType":"note","content":"

@skinnylatte<\/a> Slightly under packed for a recent trip to Singapore and that turned out to be the weirdest shopping experience I\u2019ve ever had. One of the only places selling plus sizes I could find was in an otherwise abandoned dark mall in the basement of a hotel with intense back room vibes. Somehow almost everything was $2 and nothing in the store matched anything else<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/aus.social\/@joannaholman\/117323961124909412","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/aus.social\/users\/joannaholman\/statuses\/117323950986172611","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201081"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-24:objectType=thread:nonce=458352e0500aa83f","notice_info":{"local_id":"13201082","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-09-24T03:47:44+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/aus.social\/@joannaholman\/117323961124909412"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/beige.party\/users\/mayintoronto","displayName":"May likes Toronto","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/316299-original-tmp20250712192146.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/316299-96-20250713183312.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/316299-48-20250712231719.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/316299-24-20250713183312.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"316299"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/316299-96-20250713183312.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Aspiring auntie with dadjoke uncle energy. Genderfluid queerdo. Former career nomad settling into building better tech companies. Community educator and organizer. Prone to verbose macroblogging.Purpose: get Fedi to nap more.Posts about: #cdnpoli, #onpoli, #topoli. Toronto life. Sometimes I'll go on about product or capitalism or antitrust. https:\/\/ODLAN.ca is trying to make things better for 2SLGBTQIA+ communities.I commit blasphemy with spreadsheets.#nobot #nobots #nobridge","url":"https:\/\/beige.party\/@mayintoronto","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"mayintoronto","displayName":"May likes Toronto","note":"Aspiring auntie with dadjoke uncle energy. Genderfluid queerdo. Former career nomad settling into building better tech companies. Community educator and organizer. Prone to verbose macroblogging.Purpose: get Fedi to nap more.Posts about: #cdnpoli, #onpoli, #topoli. Toronto life. Sometimes I'll go on about product or capitalism or antitrust. https:\/\/ODLAN.ca is trying to make things better for 2SLGBTQIA+ communities.I commit blasphemy with spreadsheets.#nobot #nobots #nobridge"}},"content":"

@skinnylatte<\/a> I once made the mistake of trying to go clothing shopping at regular stores in China. They don't make them in my size. I had to go to the big Western brands with their ridiculous markup. Never found a good tailor in my time there, and I didn't speak enough clothing-Mandarin to communicate what I wanted. <\/p>

Although the bra shopping experience was fascinating.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-28:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/beige.party\/users\/mayintoronto\/statuses\/117323943931214677","object":{"id":"https:\/\/beige.party\/users\/mayintoronto\/statuses\/117323943931214677","objectType":"note","content":"

@skinnylatte<\/a> I once made the mistake of trying to go clothing shopping at regular stores in China. They don't make them in my size. I had to go to the big Western brands with their ridiculous markup. Never found a good tailor in my time there, and I didn't speak enough clothing-Mandarin to communicate what I wanted. <\/p>

Although the bra shopping experience was fascinating.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201078","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323928747929400","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323928747929400"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-24:objectType=thread:nonce=458352e0500aa83f","notice_info":{"local_id":"13201078","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-09-24T03:47:27+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201078"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/cosocial.ca\/users\/johnefrancis","displayName":"John Francis \ud83c\udde8\ud83c\udde6\ud83e\uddab\ud83c\udf41\ud83e\udece","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/301528-original-tmp20251224020932.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/301528-96-20251224125015.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/301528-48-20251224125015.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/301528-24-20251224125015.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"301528"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/301528-96-20251224125015.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Independent #Softitute #Java #developer #cloud #architect since 1997 He\/Him\/His. Married to a lovely lady. #ottawa #cats #dogs #fishing #hunting #onpoli #cdnpoli #ottawa #barrhaven #aquarium #geology #onstorm #antihate #gardening #MMT #canada #NoWarButClassWar","url":"https:\/\/cosocial.ca\/@johnefrancis","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"johnefrancis","displayName":"John Francis \ud83c\udde8\ud83c\udde6\ud83e\uddab\ud83c\udf41\ud83e\udece","note":"Independent #Softitute #Java #developer #cloud #architect since 1997 He\/Him\/His. Married to a lovely lady. #ottawa #cats #dogs #fishing #hunting #onpoli #cdnpoli #ottawa #barrhaven #aquarium #geology #onstorm #antihate #gardening #MMT #canada #NoWarButClassWar"}},"content":"

@mayintoronto<\/a> @skinnylatte<\/a> I learned that I am a 6XL shirt in the Phillipines, just XL in Canada.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-28:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/cosocial.ca\/users\/johnefrancis\/statuses\/117323957986342203","object":{"id":"https:\/\/cosocial.ca\/users\/johnefrancis\/statuses\/117323957986342203","objectType":"note","content":"

@mayintoronto<\/a> @skinnylatte<\/a> I learned that I am a 6XL shirt in the Phillipines, just XL in Canada.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/cosocial.ca\/@johnefrancis\/117323957986342203","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/beige.party\/users\/mayintoronto\/statuses\/117323943931214677","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201078"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/beige.party\/users\/mayintoronto"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-24:objectType=thread:nonce=458352e0500aa83f","notice_info":{"local_id":"13201079","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-09-24T03:47:25+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/cosocial.ca\/@johnefrancis\/117323957986342203"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-stream.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-mini.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"43116"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone.","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","note":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone."}},"content":"

@johnefrancis<\/a> @mayintoronto<\/a> ha, I learned that anyone with the same waist size as me in N America seems to have 2x longer legs. <\/p>

Not a difficult fix, but sometimes I\u2019m just tired<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-28:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323962073509742","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323962073509742","objectType":"note","content":"

@johnefrancis<\/a> @mayintoronto<\/a> ha, I learned that anyone with the same waist size as me in N America seems to have 2x longer legs. <\/p>

Not a difficult fix, but sometimes I\u2019m just tired<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201080","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/cosocial.ca\/users\/johnefrancis\/statuses\/117323957986342203","url":"https:\/\/cosocial.ca\/@johnefrancis\/117323957986342203"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/cosocial.ca\/users\/johnefrancis"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/beige.party\/users\/mayintoronto"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-24:objectType=thread:nonce=458352e0500aa83f","notice_info":{"local_id":"13201080","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-09-24T03:47:24+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201080"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-stream.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-mini.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"43116"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone.","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","note":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone."}},"content":"

\u2018Why don\u2019t you just go to a thrift store\u2019 <\/p>

You don\u2019t understand, I do not want to be around clothes, putting on and taking off clothes, and I especially do not want to be searching for clothes that mostly do not fit me. I love the idea of thrifting! But if I had to describe my aversion to procuring clothing, I would say it\u2019s one of my top three life stressors<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-28:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323928747929400","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323928747929400","objectType":"note","content":"

\u2018Why don\u2019t you just go to a thrift store\u2019 <\/p>

You don\u2019t understand, I do not want to be around clothes, putting on and taking off clothes, and I especially do not want to be searching for clothes that mostly do not fit me. I love the idea of thrifting! But if I had to describe my aversion to procuring clothing, I would say it\u2019s one of my top three life stressors<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323928747929400","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323901666778738","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201032"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-24:objectType=thread:nonce=458352e0500aa83f","notice_info":{"local_id":"13201059","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-09-24T03:38:38+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323928747929400"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-stream.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-mini.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"43116"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone.","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","note":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone."}},"content":"

It\u2019s a bit of a luxury, but it is going to immeasurably improve my life. I will do anything, and pay any amount of money, to never have to shop for clothing from a store ever again.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-28:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323901666778738","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323901666778738","objectType":"note","content":"

It\u2019s a bit of a luxury, but it is going to immeasurably improve my life. I will do anything, and pay any amount of money, to never have to shop for clothing from a store ever again.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201032","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323892686619944","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323892686619944"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-24:objectType=thread:nonce=458352e0500aa83f","notice_info":{"local_id":"13201032","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-09-24T03:31:17+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/13201032"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-stream.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-mini.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"43116"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone.","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","note":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone."}},"content":"

I haven\u2019t had great experiences doing this in Thailand or Vietnam. I think the tailoring industry in those countries is pretty decent but works better for men. For women\u2019s clothing, I find them not as good or skilled (or interested in the business really). <\/p>

I was lucky to find a tailor that has an equally vibrant female tailoring department and I\u2019m so pleased with the work I am going to get more stuff done before I go.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-28:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323892686619944","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323892686619944","objectType":"note","content":"

I haven\u2019t had great experiences doing this in Thailand or Vietnam. I think the tailoring industry in those countries is pretty decent but works better for men. For women\u2019s clothing, I find them not as good or skilled (or interested in the business really). <\/p>

I was lucky to find a tailor that has an equally vibrant female tailoring department and I\u2019m so pleased with the work I am going to get more stuff done before I go.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323892686619944","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323884830663227","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323884830663227"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-24:objectType=thread:nonce=458352e0500aa83f","notice_info":{"local_id":"13201027","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-09-24T03:28:59+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323892686619944"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-stream.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-mini.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"43116"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone.","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","note":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone."}},"content":"

As someone who really resents the experience of procuring female clothing:<\/p>

Saving money in order to invest in and develop a relationship with a bespoke tailor who gets my preference for materials and styles has been a revelation. <\/p>

Most formal clothing available in the U.S. does not fit my body type at all. <\/p>

I tried a tailor in Malaysia where I visit often, and they\u2019ll now be able to send me stuff based on my text messages. I am so, so relieved. <\/p>

I want to have a better relationship with clothing, but I do not want to engage in fast fashion or the experience of \u2018shopping\u2019. <\/p>

I know what I want and don\u2019t want (too long shirts, too stiff collars, stuff that looks weird tucked in because it\u2019s not made for my body type). I like being able to say I want a pocket here or there, or use some material that is good for specific weather. <\/p>

I don\u2019t think I\u2019ll ever go back to getting anything off the rack, ideally (I have a very difficult relationship with shopping and it literally makes me cry)<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-28:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323884830663227","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/117323884830663227","objectType":"note","content":"

As someone who really resents the experience of procuring female clothing:<\/p>

Saving money in order to invest in and develop a relationship with a bespoke tailor who gets my preference for materials and styles has been a revelation. <\/p>

Most formal clothing available in the U.S. does not fit my body type at all. <\/p>

I tried a tailor in Malaysia where I visit often, and they\u2019ll now be able to send me stuff based on my text messages. I am so, so relieved. <\/p>

I want to have a better relationship with clothing, but I do not want to engage in fast fashion or the experience of \u2018shopping\u2019. <\/p>

I know what I want and don\u2019t want (too long shirts, too stiff collars, stuff that looks weird tucked in because it\u2019s not made for my body type). I like being able to say I want a pocket here or there, or use some material that is good for specific weather. <\/p>

I don\u2019t think I\u2019ll ever go back to getting anything off the rack, ideally (I have a very difficult relationship with shopping and it literally makes me cry)<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323884830663227","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-24:objectType=thread:nonce=458352e0500aa83f","notice_info":{"local_id":"13201021","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-09-24T03:27:00+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/117323884830663227"}],"links":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/conversation\/6710092","rel":"alternate","type":"text\/html"}]}