{"generator":"GNU social 2.0.2-dev","title":"Conversation","totalItems":5,"items":[{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/coldfish","displayName":"Dan Morris","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113774-original-tmp20230421163838.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113774-96-20230709005004.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113774-48-20230709005004.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113774-24-20230709005005.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"113774"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113774-96-20230709005004.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Local SF Software Developer, Parent, Sailor and Espresso Addict. Parent of 2 kids with Celiac, so I try to post restaurant and food stuff related to that as wellThings that should be a given for everyone:  anti-fascist, anti billionaire.  Supporter of Constitutional Democracy, Gay Rights, Trans Rights, and Human Rights. Interests: #Sailing, #Angular, #SQL, #Progressive, #CityFamily, #Travel, #Celiac, #GlutenFree, #Politics, #ElectronicVehicles, #LifePo4, #Boating, #Marine","url":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@coldfish","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"coldfish","displayName":"Dan Morris","note":"Local SF Software Developer, Parent, Sailor and Espresso Addict. Parent of 2 kids with Celiac, so I try to post restaurant and food stuff related to that as wellThings that should be a given for everyone:  anti-fascist, anti billionaire.  Supporter of Constitutional Democracy, Gay Rights, Trans Rights, and Human Rights. Interests: #Sailing, #Angular, #SQL, #Progressive, #CityFamily, #Travel, #Celiac, #GlutenFree, #Politics, #ElectronicVehicles, #LifePo4, #Boating, #Marine"}},"content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@sysop408\" class=\"u-url mention\">@sysop408<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\" class=\"u-url mention\">@skinnylatte<\/a> <br \/>I discovered that it's not just tourist chinese restaurants that do this!<\/p><p>I live right in chinatown, and my inlaws are all chinese.  And we eat at some pretty sketchy places where they can get the best stinky-fish pot and argue about who's chicken feet are better.<\/p><p>When we go, my mother-in-law will get the menu (it used to be her husband before he died)  and order for everyone.  We don't really get a say.<\/p><p>When I used to go to the same restaurant with non-chinese friends, we all get menus with individual plates and I have to ask for the family menu.<\/p><p>Now that they all know me, when I'm there with non-chinese friends, they automatically give me the family menu and I get to ignore everyone else at the table.  <br \/> <br \/>then again.... the check also goes to me.  :)<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-08-05:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/coldfish\/statuses\/116438213933145096","object":{"id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/coldfish\/statuses\/116438213933145096","objectType":"note","content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@sysop408\" class=\"u-url mention\">@sysop408<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\" class=\"u-url mention\">@skinnylatte<\/a> <br \/>I discovered that it's not just tourist chinese restaurants that do this!<\/p><p>I live right in chinatown, and my inlaws are all chinese.  And we eat at some pretty sketchy places where they can get the best stinky-fish pot and argue about who's chicken feet are better.<\/p><p>When we go, my mother-in-law will get the menu (it used to be her husband before he died)  and order for everyone.  We don't really get a say.<\/p><p>When I used to go to the same restaurant with non-chinese friends, we all get menus with individual plates and I have to ask for the family menu.<\/p><p>Now that they all know me, when I'm there with non-chinese friends, they automatically give me the family menu and I get to ignore everyone else at the table.  <br \/> <br \/>then again.... the check also goes to me.  :)<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@coldfish\/116438213933145096","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/sysop408\/statuses\/116438134362592647","url":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@sysop408\/116438134362592647"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/sysop408"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-04-20:objectType=thread:nonce=43b7486219f3d195","notice_info":{"local_id":"12480556","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-04-20T17:39:05+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@coldfish\/116438213933145096"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-stream.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-mini.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"43116"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone.","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","note":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone."}},"content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@coldfish\" class=\"u-url mention\">@coldfish<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@sysop408\" class=\"u-url mention\">@sysop408<\/a> I feel like most restaurants will do the one entree per person thing if someone asks for it. They\u2019re not going to say you can\u2019t do it.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-08-05:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/116438236990741835","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/116438236990741835","objectType":"note","content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@coldfish\" class=\"u-url mention\">@coldfish<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@sysop408\" class=\"u-url mention\">@sysop408<\/a> I feel like most restaurants will do the one entree per person thing if someone asks for it. They\u2019re not going to say you can\u2019t do it.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/12480557","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/coldfish\/statuses\/116438213933145096","url":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@coldfish\/116438213933145096"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/sysop408"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/coldfish"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-04-20:objectType=thread:nonce=43b7486219f3d195","notice_info":{"local_id":"12480557","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-04-20T17:39:04+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/12480557"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/sysop408","displayName":"Sheldon","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/84383-original-tmp20230505211134.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/84383-96-20230505211304.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/84383-48-20230505211304.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/84383-24-20230505211304.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"84383"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/84383-96-20230505211304.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Drupaler, full-stack dev, &amp; bad sysadmin. Even worse harmonica player. Not a bad photographer. Works to create culture and community through downtowns and small business. Has Non-24 disorder (sighted). Wife has ME\/CFS. Enjoyer of when the good news is also the bad news. \u2029Early Internet\/BBS Posse (86). NAFO Fella. Slava Ukraini. \ud83c\uddfa\ud83c\udde6Former: TechCrunch Disrupt Alum, Physical Therapist, Hospital Design Analyst, CRM Admin, Boston U Alumni","url":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@sysop408","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"sysop408","displayName":"Sheldon","note":"Drupaler, full-stack dev, &amp; bad sysadmin. Even worse harmonica player. Not a bad photographer. Works to create culture and community through downtowns and small business. Has Non-24 disorder (sighted). Wife has ME\/CFS. Enjoyer of when the good news is also the bad news. \u2029Early Internet\/BBS Posse (86). NAFO Fella. Slava Ukraini. \ud83c\uddfa\ud83c\udde6Former: TechCrunch Disrupt Alum, Physical Therapist, Hospital Design Analyst, CRM Admin, Boston U Alumni"}},"content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\" class=\"u-url mention\">@skinnylatte<\/a> OK, but the question is where are these people even going that a Chinese restaurant has individual plates?<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-08-05:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/sysop408\/statuses\/116438134362592647","object":{"id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/sysop408\/statuses\/116438134362592647","objectType":"note","content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\" class=\"u-url mention\">@skinnylatte<\/a> OK, but the question is where are these people even going that a Chinese restaurant has individual plates?<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@sysop408\/116438134362592647","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/116438119252988558","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/116438119252988558"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-04-20:objectType=thread:nonce=43b7486219f3d195","notice_info":{"local_id":"12480465","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-04-20T17:19:36+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@sysop408\/116438134362592647"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-stream.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-mini.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"43116"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone.","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","note":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone."}},"content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@sysop408\" class=\"u-url mention\">@sysop408<\/a> they\u2019re ordering one entree per person, with no rice. Just eating it straight.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-08-05:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/116438174447029386","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte\/statuses\/116438174447029386","objectType":"note","content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@sysop408\" class=\"u-url mention\">@sysop408<\/a> they\u2019re ordering one entree per person, with no rice. Just eating it straight.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/116438174447029386","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/sysop408\/statuses\/116438134362592647","url":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/@sysop408\/116438134362592647"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/sfba.social\/users\/sysop408"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-04-20:objectType=thread:nonce=43b7486219f3d195","notice_info":{"local_id":"12480466","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-04-20T17:19:35+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte\/116438174447029386"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-stream.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-mini.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"43116"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/theme\/gnusocialjp\/default-avatar-profile.png","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/png","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. Lukewarm takes on tech, food, bicycles, and lots and lots of pet photos.Learning to play jazz piano and saxophone.","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@skinnylatte","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"skinnylatte","displayName":"Adrianna Tan","note":"Queer Southeast Asian product manager living in California working on #civictech. 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