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@elduvelle<\/a> @artemis<\/a> My observation has been that the people who obsess over genes believe that they have ownership of the humans who carry on those genes and get to force those humans to live lives that they believe serve a continuation of their clan (or often klan) identity after they're gone.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-07:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias\/statuses\/116122513793989166","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias\/statuses\/116122513793989166","objectType":"note","content":"

@elduvelle<\/a> @artemis<\/a> My observation has been that the people who obsess over genes believe that they have ownership of the humans who carry on those genes and get to force those humans to live lives that they believe serve a continuation of their clan (or often klan) identity after they're gone.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@dalias\/116122513793989166","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias\/statuses\/116122505518740720","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/12179635"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/neuromatch.social\/users\/elduvelle"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-02-23:objectType=thread:nonce=93239fabdd82f6ed","notice_info":{"local_id":"12179644","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-02-23T23:22:25+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@dalias\/116122513793989166"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/neuromatch.social\/users\/elduvelle","displayName":"El Duvelle","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/83487-original-tmp20240907140339.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/83487-96-20240907162846.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/83487-48-20240907162846.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/83487-24-20240907162846.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"83487"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/83487-96-20240907162846.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"#Neuroscientist - postdoc - researching how the brain does spatial memory & flexible #Navigation in ratsFor Neuroscience-oriented posts, check: @elduvelle_neuro \ud83e\udde0For coding, games, academia, nature, polls, random boosts, and importantly, saving the planet \ud83c\udf0d: stick to this account!Warning: I boost a lot, and I boost *all* rat posts \ud83d\udc00 feel free to "hide my boosts"NoGenAIPosts mostly in EN but sometimes FRsearchable (see https:\/\/www.tootfinder.ch\/)","url":"https:\/\/neuromatch.social\/@elduvelle","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"elduvelle","displayName":"El Duvelle","note":"#Neuroscientist - postdoc - researching how the brain does spatial memory & flexible #Navigation in ratsFor Neuroscience-oriented posts, check: @elduvelle_neuro \ud83e\udde0For coding, games, academia, nature, polls, random boosts, and importantly, saving the planet \ud83c\udf0d: stick to this account!Warning: I boost a lot, and I boost *all* rat posts \ud83d\udc00 feel free to "hide my boosts"NoGenAIPosts mostly in EN but sometimes FRsearchable (see https:\/\/www.tootfinder.ch\/)"}},"content":"

@artemis<\/a> I guess one of the reasons for having biological children (conscious or not) is that you get to transmit your genes and in a way you become a little bit immortal... (I said, consciously or not!)
So if you do all that, go through all the trouble and costs related to having children, and then those children \"stop the chain\" by not having children of their own.. You're not really immortal anymore.. and maybe you will start to resent them for it.<\/p>

(I'm not saying it's justified or not)<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-07:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/neuromatch.social\/users\/elduvelle\/statuses\/116122250683780970","object":{"id":"https:\/\/neuromatch.social\/users\/elduvelle\/statuses\/116122250683780970","objectType":"note","content":"

@artemis<\/a> I guess one of the reasons for having biological children (conscious or not) is that you get to transmit your genes and in a way you become a little bit immortal... (I said, consciously or not!)
So if you do all that, go through all the trouble and costs related to having children, and then those children \"stop the chain\" by not having children of their own.. You're not really immortal anymore.. and maybe you will start to resent them for it.<\/p>

(I'm not saying it's justified or not)<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/neuromatch.social\/@elduvelle\/116122250683780970","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122208743973183","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/116122208743973183"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-02-23:objectType=thread:nonce=93239fabdd82f6ed","notice_info":{"local_id":"12179634","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-02-23T23:20:21+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/neuromatch.social\/@elduvelle\/116122250683780970"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias","displayName":"Rich Felker","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-original-tmp20221202140938.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-96-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-48-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-24-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"40873"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-96-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"C librarian, purveyor of the language's eldritch horrors. Poppin' shells \ud83e\uddaa","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@dalias","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"dalias","displayName":"Rich Felker","note":"C librarian, purveyor of the language's eldritch horrors. Poppin' shells \ud83e\uddaa"}},"content":"

@elduvelle<\/a> @artemis<\/a> That's so ridiculous and backwards. Genes are not you, and even if the genes evolved to favor behaviors that would transmit them, you have no reason to care about that. Someone having my genes still living once I'm gone isn't going to grant me any immortality. The things we do actually have sound motive to want to transmit are memetic. These are parts of us, and can be things that benefit future generations of beings and bring us connection to them.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-07:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias\/statuses\/116122505518740720","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias\/statuses\/116122505518740720","objectType":"note","content":"

@elduvelle<\/a> @artemis<\/a> That's so ridiculous and backwards. Genes are not you, and even if the genes evolved to favor behaviors that would transmit them, you have no reason to care about that. Someone having my genes still living once I'm gone isn't going to grant me any immortality. The things we do actually have sound motive to want to transmit are memetic. These are parts of us, and can be things that benefit future generations of beings and bring us connection to them.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/12179635","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/neuromatch.social\/users\/elduvelle\/statuses\/116122250683780970","url":"https:\/\/neuromatch.social\/@elduvelle\/116122250683780970"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/neuromatch.social\/users\/elduvelle"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-02-23:objectType=thread:nonce=93239fabdd82f6ed","notice_info":{"local_id":"12179635","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-02-23T23:20:20+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/12179635"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias","displayName":"Rich Felker","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-original-tmp20221202140938.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-96-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-48-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-24-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"40873"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-96-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"C librarian, purveyor of the language's eldritch horrors. Poppin' shells \ud83e\uddaa","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@dalias","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"dalias","displayName":"Rich Felker","note":"C librarian, purveyor of the language's eldritch horrors. Poppin' shells \ud83e\uddaa"}},"content":"RT @dalias There is SO MUCH resentment about raising kids, & it's weird how often that results in the demand that OTHER people have kids to validate one person's life & choices.I understand that a lot of times even people who "chose" to have kids weren't fully free to make their own choices because of social pressures pushing & pushing them, but it drives me nuts when that resentment goes towards the child who is the only one involved in that scenario who had absolutely no input at all.","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-07:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias\/statuses\/116122487376387707\/activity","object":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122208743973183","objectType":"note","content":"

So is one of the reasons that some parents resent it when their adult children don't end up having children of their own that their adult children are experiencing freedom that they didn't have at that same age because they were busy raising kids?<\/p>

Do people feel invalidated if their own kids don't go through the labor & stress of raising kids?<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/116122208743973183","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-02-23:objectType=thread:nonce=93239fabdd82f6ed","notice_info":{"local_id":"12179614","source":"ActivityPub","repeat_of":"12179605"}},"published":"2026-02-23T23:16:01+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"title":"dalias repeated a notice by artemis","verb":"share","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias\/statuses\/116122487376387707\/activity"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias","displayName":"Rich Felker","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-original-tmp20221202140938.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-96-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-48-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-24-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"40873"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-96-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"C librarian, purveyor of the language's eldritch horrors. Poppin' shells \ud83e\uddaa","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@dalias","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"dalias","displayName":"Rich Felker","note":"C librarian, purveyor of the language's eldritch horrors. Poppin' shells \ud83e\uddaa"}},"content":"RT @dalias An uncomfortably high number of people are on this planet for no reason other than that their parents felt pressure to have children.That's it.A lot of parents didn't want to have or raise children, but they did anyway, & now they are confused why these children they had entirely out of obligation & have always thought (& spoken) of as a burden don't call home anymore.","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-07:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias\/statuses\/116122488266203520\/activity","object":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122252545770375","objectType":"note","content":"

But also...that resentment should tell us that we need to make it easier to raise kids!<\/p>

Caring for kids is a lot of work, & I would really rather it not be another huge pile of tasks for a couple people who are already exhausted all the time from all the other demands placed on them.<\/p>

We as a society could do better...if only we could get away from the perspective that being human is primarily about the value you produce through labor.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/12179607","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-02-23:objectType=thread:nonce=93239fabdd82f6ed","notice_info":{"local_id":"12179612","source":"ActivityPub","repeat_of":"12179607"}},"published":"2026-02-23T23:15:56+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"title":"dalias repeated a notice by artemis","verb":"share","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias\/statuses\/116122488266203520\/activity"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis","displayName":"Artemis","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-original-tmp20241218214212.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-48-20241218225654.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-24-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"113159"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"artemis","displayName":"Artemis","note":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot"}},"content":"

An uncomfortably high number of people are on this planet for no reason other than that their parents felt pressure to have children.<\/p>

That's it.<\/p>

A lot of parents didn't want to have or raise children, but they did anyway, & now they are confused why these children they had entirely out of obligation & have always thought (& spoken) of as a burden don't call home anymore.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-07:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122278897458963","object":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122278897458963","objectType":"note","content":"

An uncomfortably high number of people are on this planet for no reason other than that their parents felt pressure to have children.<\/p>

That's it.<\/p>

A lot of parents didn't want to have or raise children, but they did anyway, & now they are confused why these children they had entirely out of obligation & have always thought (& spoken) of as a burden don't call home anymore.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/116122278897458963","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122252545770375","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/12179607"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-02-23:objectType=thread:nonce=93239fabdd82f6ed","notice_info":{"local_id":"12179611","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-02-23T23:15:56+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/116122278897458963"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias","displayName":"Rich Felker","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-original-tmp20221202140938.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-96-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-48-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-24-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"40873"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/40873-96-20221207231635.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"C librarian, purveyor of the language's eldritch horrors. Poppin' shells \ud83e\uddaa","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@dalias","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"dalias","displayName":"Rich Felker","note":"C librarian, purveyor of the language's eldritch horrors. Poppin' shells \ud83e\uddaa"}},"content":"RT @dalias But also...that resentment should tell us that we need to make it easier to raise kids!Caring for kids is a lot of work, & I would really rather it not be another huge pile of tasks for a couple people who are already exhausted all the time from all the other demands placed on them.We as a society could do better...if only we could get away from the perspective that being human is primarily about the value you produce through labor.","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-07:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias\/statuses\/116122487646132582\/activity","object":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122231218910134","objectType":"note","content":"

There is SO MUCH resentment about raising kids, & it's weird how often that results in the demand that OTHER people have kids to validate one person's life & choices.<\/p>

I understand that a lot of times even people who \"chose\" to have kids weren't fully free to make their own choices because of social pressures pushing & pushing them, but it drives me nuts when that resentment goes towards the child who is the only one involved in that scenario who had absolutely no input at all.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/116122231218910134","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-02-23:objectType=thread:nonce=93239fabdd82f6ed","notice_info":{"local_id":"12179608","source":"ActivityPub","repeat_of":"12179606"}},"published":"2026-02-23T23:15:52+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"title":"dalias repeated a notice by artemis","verb":"share","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/dalias\/statuses\/116122487646132582\/activity"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis","displayName":"Artemis","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-original-tmp20241218214212.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-48-20241218225654.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-24-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"113159"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"artemis","displayName":"Artemis","note":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot"}},"content":"

There is SO MUCH resentment about raising kids, & it's weird how often that results in the demand that OTHER people have kids to validate one person's life & choices.<\/p>

I understand that a lot of times even people who \"chose\" to have kids weren't fully free to make their own choices because of social pressures pushing & pushing them, but it drives me nuts when that resentment goes towards the child who is the only one involved in that scenario who had absolutely no input at all.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-07:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122231218910134","object":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122231218910134","objectType":"note","content":"

There is SO MUCH resentment about raising kids, & it's weird how often that results in the demand that OTHER people have kids to validate one person's life & choices.<\/p>

I understand that a lot of times even people who \"chose\" to have kids weren't fully free to make their own choices because of social pressures pushing & pushing them, but it drives me nuts when that resentment goes towards the child who is the only one involved in that scenario who had absolutely no input at all.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/116122231218910134","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122208743973183","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/116122208743973183"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-02-23:objectType=thread:nonce=93239fabdd82f6ed","notice_info":{"local_id":"12179606","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-02-23T23:15:48+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/116122231218910134"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis","displayName":"Artemis","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-original-tmp20241218214212.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-48-20241218225654.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-24-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"113159"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"artemis","displayName":"Artemis","note":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot"}},"content":"

But also...that resentment should tell us that we need to make it easier to raise kids!<\/p>

Caring for kids is a lot of work, & I would really rather it not be another huge pile of tasks for a couple people who are already exhausted all the time from all the other demands placed on them.<\/p>

We as a society could do better...if only we could get away from the perspective that being human is primarily about the value you produce through labor.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-07:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122252545770375","object":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122252545770375","objectType":"note","content":"

But also...that resentment should tell us that we need to make it easier to raise kids!<\/p>

Caring for kids is a lot of work, & I would really rather it not be another huge pile of tasks for a couple people who are already exhausted all the time from all the other demands placed on them.<\/p>

We as a society could do better...if only we could get away from the perspective that being human is primarily about the value you produce through labor.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/12179607","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122231218910134","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/116122231218910134"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-02-23:objectType=thread:nonce=93239fabdd82f6ed","notice_info":{"local_id":"12179607","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-02-23T23:15:47+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/notice\/12179607"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis","displayName":"Artemis","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-original-tmp20241218214212.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-48-20241218225654.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-24-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"113159"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/113159-96-20241218225939.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"artemis","displayName":"Artemis","note":"I'm a bisexual anti-capitalist, artist, & aspiring propagandist. We're not free until we're *all* free.Guillermo del Toro fan account. Anarchist pep-talks are provided free of charge. Solidarity forever!Profile pic & banner are images of GI Robot from Creature Commandos#nobot"}},"content":"

So is one of the reasons that some parents resent it when their adult children don't end up having children of their own that their adult children are experiencing freedom that they didn't have at that same age because they were busy raising kids?<\/p>

Do people feel invalidated if their own kids don't go through the labor & stress of raising kids?<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-09-07:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122208743973183","object":{"id":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/users\/artemis\/statuses\/116122208743973183","objectType":"note","content":"

So is one of the reasons that some parents resent it when their adult children don't end up having children of their own that their adult children are experiencing freedom that they didn't have at that same age because they were busy raising kids?<\/p>

Do people feel invalidated if their own kids don't go through the labor & stress of raising kids?<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/116122208743973183","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-02-23:objectType=thread:nonce=93239fabdd82f6ed","notice_info":{"local_id":"12179605","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2026-02-23T23:15:41+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/dice.camp\/@artemis\/116122208743973183"}],"links":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/conversation\/6180909","rel":"alternate","type":"text\/html"}]}