{"generator":"GNU social 2.0.2-dev","title":"Conversation","totalItems":6,"items":[{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/users\/superflippy","displayName":"Susanna the Artist \ud83c\udf3b","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/74736-original-tmp20221216184849.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":256,"height":256},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/74736-96-20240106085818.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/74736-48-20240106085818.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/74736-24-20240106085818.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"74736"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/74736-96-20240106085818.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Artist, musician, writer, nerd. \u2028Find me @superflippy everywhere. she\/herSend me your #music recommendations!Trans rights are human rights! \ud83c\udff3\ufe0f\u200d\u26a7\ufe0f Avatar alt text: a cartoon skinny girl with a ponytail on top of her head, wearing yellow hammer pants &amp; making muscle arms.","url":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/@superflippy","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"superflippy","displayName":"Susanna the Artist \ud83c\udf3b","note":"Artist, musician, writer, nerd. \u2028Find me @superflippy everywhere. she\/herSend me your #music recommendations!Trans rights are human rights! \ud83c\udff3\ufe0f\u200d\u26a7\ufe0f Avatar alt text: a cartoon skinny girl with a ponytail on top of her head, wearing yellow hammer pants &amp; making muscle arms."}},"content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@inthehands\" class=\"u-url mention\">@inthehands<\/a> I remember reading this. And also to let the person know that you will be there for them no matter what. It makes it easier to leave if they know they have someone they can go to.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-08-13:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/users\/superflippy\/statuses\/115435572045624487","object":{"id":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/users\/superflippy\/statuses\/115435572045624487","objectType":"note","content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@inthehands\" class=\"u-url mention\">@inthehands<\/a> I remember reading this. And also to let the person know that you will be there for them no matter what. It makes it easier to leave if they know they have someone they can go to.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/@superflippy\/115435572045624487","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/inthehands\/statuses\/115435349700494703","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@inthehands\/115435349700494703"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/inthehands"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2025-10-25:objectType=thread:nonce=2e4c913d58709b88","notice_info":{"local_id":"11385286","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2025-10-25T15:50:03+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/@superflippy\/115435572045624487"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/inthehands","displayName":"Paul Cantrell","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/53259-original-tmp20231130153900.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/53259-96-20231130154634.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/53259-48-20231130154634.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/53259-24-20231130154634.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"53259"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/53259-96-20231130154634.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Composer, pianist, programmer, professor, rabble rouser, redheadComputer Science at https:\/\/www.macalester.edu\/mscs\/(Student projects: https:\/\/devgarden.macalester.edu)Artistic Director of https:\/\/newruckus.orgFreelance dev, often with https:\/\/bustout.comMusical troublemaker https:\/\/innig.net\/music\/The heart is the toughest part of the body.Tenderness is in the hands.\u00a0\u2014 Carolyn Forch\u00e9searchable","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@inthehands","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"inthehands","displayName":"Paul Cantrell","note":"Composer, pianist, programmer, professor, rabble rouser, redheadComputer Science at https:\/\/www.macalester.edu\/mscs\/(Student projects: https:\/\/devgarden.macalester.edu)Artistic Director of https:\/\/newruckus.orgFreelance dev, often with https:\/\/bustout.comMusical troublemaker https:\/\/innig.net\/music\/The heart is the toughest part of the body.Tenderness is in the hands.\u00a0\u2014 Carolyn Forch\u00e9searchable"}},"content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/@superflippy\" class=\"u-url mention\">@superflippy<\/a> <\/p><p>A lot of folks out there making some really tough calls about when to stand by a loved one who\u2019s caught up in the cult and went to walk away. I don\u2019t envy anyone that decision.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-08-13:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/inthehands\/statuses\/115435595368556181","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/inthehands\/statuses\/115435595368556181","objectType":"note","content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/@superflippy\" class=\"u-url mention\">@superflippy<\/a> <\/p><p>A lot of folks out there making some really tough calls about when to stand by a loved one who\u2019s caught up in the cult and went to walk away. I don\u2019t envy anyone that decision.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@inthehands\/115435595368556181","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/users\/superflippy\/statuses\/115435572045624487","url":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/@superflippy\/115435572045624487"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/users\/superflippy"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2025-10-25:objectType=thread:nonce=2e4c913d58709b88","notice_info":{"local_id":"11385287","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2025-10-25T15:50:02+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@inthehands\/115435595368556181"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hostux.social\/users\/bmacDonald94","displayName":"Mr. Bill","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/134756-original-tmp20230606234044.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/134756-96-20230826154429.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/134756-48-20230826154429.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/134756-24-20230826154429.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"134756"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/134756-96-20230826154429.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"~ Make America Good for Once~        DM&#39;s empty profile and no posts = BlockRetired man. Enjoying life to the fullest and especially my friends. I do no cyber coin nor wish to hook up, those games are behind me. No room for hate and I include all as the tapestry of humankind. A weary warrior for peace and a livable world. PhD Geo Physics. I use the Ubuntu flavor of Linux. 24.04.  &quot;If there were a god, Then there would be no religion.&quot;Christopher Hitchen&#39;sHumor and Empathy Pronouns: he\/him","url":"https:\/\/hostux.social\/@bmacDonald94","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"bmacDonald94","displayName":"Mr. Bill","note":"~ Make America Good for Once~        DM&#39;s empty profile and no posts = BlockRetired man. Enjoying life to the fullest and especially my friends. I do no cyber coin nor wish to hook up, those games are behind me. No room for hate and I include all as the tapestry of humankind. A weary warrior for peace and a livable world. PhD Geo Physics. I use the Ubuntu flavor of Linux. 24.04.  &quot;If there were a god, Then there would be no religion.&quot;Christopher Hitchen&#39;sHumor and Empathy Pronouns: he\/him"}},"content":"RT @bmacDonald94 The very little I know (\u2022very\u2022 little! grain of salt!) about getting people out of a cult is that arguing with them just makes them dig in \u2014 but gentle, persistent questioning that leads to ever-increasing cumulative cognitive dissonance can actually help them find their way out of the psychological maze. Repeated \u2022questions\u2022 \u2014 just questions \u2014 sustained over time. Make the constructed reality require more and more work to maintain. Make the pile of nagging doubts get larger and larger. Be patient and be persistent.","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-08-13:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hostux.social\/users\/bmacDonald94\/statuses\/115435549561203055\/activity","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/inthehands\/statuses\/115435181001001943","objectType":"note","content":"<p>To be clear, the point is not Reagan Was A Model To Follow Actually.<\/p><p>The point is cognitive dissonance.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@inthehands\/115435181001001943","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2025-10-25:objectType=thread:nonce=2e4c913d58709b88","notice_info":{"local_id":"11385253","source":"ActivityPub","repeat_of":"11384720"}},"published":"2025-10-25T15:38:23+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"title":"bmacDonald94 repeated a notice by inthehands","verb":"share","url":"https:\/\/hostux.social\/users\/bmacDonald94\/statuses\/115435549561203055\/activity"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/inthehands","displayName":"Paul Cantrell","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/53259-original-tmp20231130153900.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/53259-96-20231130154634.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/53259-48-20231130154634.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/53259-24-20231130154634.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"53259"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/53259-96-20231130154634.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Composer, pianist, programmer, professor, rabble rouser, redheadComputer Science at https:\/\/www.macalester.edu\/mscs\/(Student projects: https:\/\/devgarden.macalester.edu)Artistic Director of https:\/\/newruckus.orgFreelance dev, often with https:\/\/bustout.comMusical troublemaker https:\/\/innig.net\/music\/The heart is the toughest part of the body.Tenderness is in the hands.\u00a0\u2014 Carolyn Forch\u00e9searchable","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@inthehands","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"inthehands","displayName":"Paul Cantrell","note":"Composer, pianist, programmer, professor, rabble rouser, redheadComputer Science at https:\/\/www.macalester.edu\/mscs\/(Student projects: https:\/\/devgarden.macalester.edu)Artistic Director of https:\/\/newruckus.orgFreelance dev, often with https:\/\/bustout.comMusical troublemaker https:\/\/innig.net\/music\/The heart is the toughest part of the body.Tenderness is in the hands.\u00a0\u2014 Carolyn Forch\u00e9searchable"}},"content":"<p>The very little I know (\u2022very\u2022 little! grain of salt!) about getting people out of a cult is that arguing with them just makes them dig in \u2014 but gentle, persistent questioning that leads to ever-increasing cumulative cognitive dissonance can actually help them find their way out of the psychological maze. Repeated \u2022questions\u2022 \u2014 just questions \u2014 sustained over time. Make the constructed reality require more and more work to maintain. Make the pile of nagging doubts get larger and larger. Be patient and be persistent.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-08-13:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/inthehands\/statuses\/115435349700494703","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/inthehands\/statuses\/115435349700494703","objectType":"note","content":"<p>The very little I know (\u2022very\u2022 little! grain of salt!) about getting people out of a cult is that arguing with them just makes them dig in \u2014 but gentle, persistent questioning that leads to ever-increasing cumulative cognitive dissonance can actually help them find their way out of the psychological maze. Repeated \u2022questions\u2022 \u2014 just questions \u2014 sustained over time. Make the constructed reality require more and more work to maintain. Make the pile of nagging doubts get larger and larger. 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https:\/\/newruckus.orgFreelance dev, often with https:\/\/bustout.comMusical troublemaker https:\/\/innig.net\/music\/The heart is the toughest part of the body.Tenderness is in the hands.\u00a0\u2014 Carolyn Forch\u00e9searchable","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@inthehands","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"inthehands","displayName":"Paul Cantrell","note":"Composer, pianist, programmer, professor, rabble rouser, redheadComputer Science at https:\/\/www.macalester.edu\/mscs\/(Student projects: https:\/\/devgarden.macalester.edu)Artistic Director of https:\/\/newruckus.orgFreelance dev, often with https:\/\/bustout.comMusical troublemaker https:\/\/innig.net\/music\/The heart is the toughest part of the body.Tenderness is in the hands.\u00a0\u2014 Carolyn Forch\u00e9searchable"}},"content":"<p>To be clear, the point is not Reagan Was A Model To Follow Actually.<\/p><p>The point is cognitive 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Let\u2019s Streisand Effect the heck out of this one. <a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@randahl\/115432140956255162\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@randahl\/115432140956255162<\/a><\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-08-13:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/inthehands\/statuses\/115432975078893649","object":{"id":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/users\/inthehands\/statuses\/115432975078893649","objectType":"note","content":"<p>Agreed. Let\u2019s Streisand Effect the heck out of this one. <a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@randahl\/115432140956255162\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@randahl\/115432140956255162<\/a><\/p>","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@inthehands\/115432975078893649","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2025-10-25:objectType=thread:nonce=2e4c913d58709b88","notice_info":{"local_id":"11382545","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2025-10-25T04:43:39+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/hachyderm.io\/@inthehands\/115432975078893649"}],"links":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/conversation\/5798055","rel":"alternate","type":"text\/html"}]}