{"generator":"GNU social 2.0.2-dev","title":"Conversation","totalItems":1,"items":[{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/chaosfem.tw\/users\/Willow","displayName":"Vivian, Venus Pirate \ud83c\udff3\ufe0f\u200d\u26a7\ufe0f\ud83e\uddcb","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/171549-original-tmp20260509034102.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/171549-96-20260510084804.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/171549-48-20260510084804.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/171549-24-20260510084804.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"171549"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/171549-96-20260510084804.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Mom, Late 30s. Home Cook. Queer disaster. This is my main, because it\u2019s where I talk about important things like being trans, parenting, doing trans stuff, cooking, trans topics, and how cute you all are! \ud83d\ude0d\ud83c\udff3\ufe0f\u200d\u26a7\ufe0f\ud83e\udd70\ud83d\udc9cI do Data Engineering in exchange for money, but find me over at @willow_datawitch if that\u2019s your jam.Please interact with words, not just boosts and favorites, if you would like to follow me. I appreciate your button clicks! But I need words for vibe checks.Since I may as well spell it out for the world, I enjoy compliments from folks I already interact with, but for clarity, that\u2019s as far as it\u2019s going, and it\u2019s a strictly 18+, women-and-trans-folks-only activity.I think joy is way more important than I was taught in school.I categorize some toots thusly:#EstrogenLog, #EstrogenLogLabs, #WillowsFacialDysphoria, #WillowsTransDiscoveries, #InSqueeNewsMy Essays: #ThingsYouCantUnsay#NoBridge #NoIndex #NoBot #NoSearch","url":"https:\/\/chaosfem.tw\/@Willow","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"Willow","displayName":"Vivian, Venus Pirate \ud83c\udff3\ufe0f\u200d\u26a7\ufe0f\ud83e\uddcb","note":"Mom, Late 30s. Home Cook. Queer disaster. This is my main, because it\u2019s where I talk about important things like being trans, parenting, doing trans stuff, cooking, trans topics, and how cute you all are! \ud83d\ude0d\ud83c\udff3\ufe0f\u200d\u26a7\ufe0f\ud83e\udd70\ud83d\udc9cI do Data Engineering in exchange for money, but find me over at @willow_datawitch if that\u2019s your jam.Please interact with words, not just boosts and favorites, if you would like to follow me. I appreciate your button clicks! But I need words for vibe checks.Since I may as well spell it out for the world, I enjoy compliments from folks I already interact with, but for clarity, that\u2019s as far as it\u2019s going, and it\u2019s a strictly 18+, women-and-trans-folks-only activity.I think joy is way more important than I was taught in school.I categorize some toots thusly:#EstrogenLog, #EstrogenLogLabs, #WillowsFacialDysphoria, #WillowsTransDiscoveries, #InSqueeNewsMy Essays: #ThingsYouCantUnsay#NoBridge #NoIndex #NoBot #NoSearch"}},"content":"<p>PSA to cis folks: We know you fuck up other cis people\u2019s pronouns all the time. There are a massive amount of you, accidental misgendering happens, it\u2019s just a numbers game. When it does, you correct yourselves and move on.<\/p><p>We know you can do this successfully.<\/p><p>So when you fuck it up for <a href=\"https:\/\/chaosfem.tw\/tags\/trans\" class=\"mention hashtag\" rel=\"tag\">#trans<\/a> people, we notice. We\u2019re not mad because you fucked up our pronouns.<\/p><p>We\u2019re mad because we know you know how to fix it and make it not a big deal and get pronouns correct in the future, and you do it for each other, but not for us.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-06-21:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/chaosfem.tw\/users\/Willow\/statuses\/115429700393402838","object":{"id":"https:\/\/chaosfem.tw\/users\/Willow\/statuses\/115429700393402838","objectType":"note","content":"<p>PSA to cis folks: We know you fuck up other cis people\u2019s pronouns all the time. There are a massive amount of you, accidental misgendering happens, it\u2019s just a numbers game. When it does, you correct yourselves and move on.<\/p><p>We know you can do this successfully.<\/p><p>So when you fuck it up for <a href=\"https:\/\/chaosfem.tw\/tags\/trans\" class=\"mention hashtag\" rel=\"tag\">#trans<\/a> people, we notice. We\u2019re not mad because you fucked up our pronouns.<\/p><p>We\u2019re mad because we know you know how to fix it and make it not a big deal and get pronouns correct in the future, and you do it for each other, but not for us.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/chaosfem.tw\/@Willow\/115429700393402838","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"tags":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"trans"}]},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2025-10-24:objectType=thread:nonce=d1dbf57f9f26464d","notice_info":{"local_id":"11379722","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2025-10-24T20:20:49+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/chaosfem.tw\/@Willow\/115429700393402838"}],"links":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/conversation\/5796826","rel":"alternate","type":"text\/html"}]}