{"generator":"GNU social 2.0.2-dev","title":"Conversation","totalItems":3,"items":[{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/users\/jbowles","displayName":"jbowles","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/327285-original-tmp20250528180040.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/327285-96-20250528220040.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/327285-48-20250528220040.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/327285-24-20250528220040.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"327285"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/327285-96-20250528220040.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","url":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@jbowles","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"jbowles","displayName":"jbowles"}},"content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@wendynather\" class=\"u-url mention\">@wendynather<\/a> breaks my heart the way we raise boys. <\/p><p>I'm always reminded of this song <a href=\"https:\/\/music.youtube.com\/watch?v=l-5aPNxv-pU&amp;si=m3khhY7qOb5wVB-T\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/music.youtube.com\/watch?v=l-5aPNxv-pU&amp;si=m3khhY7qOb5wVB-T<\/a><\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-07-13:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/users\/jbowles\/statuses\/115182829293380619","object":{"id":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/users\/jbowles\/statuses\/115182829293380619","objectType":"note","content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@wendynather\" class=\"u-url mention\">@wendynather<\/a> breaks my heart the way we raise boys. <\/p><p>I'm always reminded of this song <a href=\"https:\/\/music.youtube.com\/watch?v=l-5aPNxv-pU&amp;si=m3khhY7qOb5wVB-T\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/music.youtube.com\/watch?v=l-5aPNxv-pU&amp;si=m3khhY7qOb5wVB-T<\/a><\/p>","url":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@jbowles\/115182829293380619","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/users\/wendynather\/statuses\/115174739539703845","url":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@wendynather\/115174739539703845"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/users\/wendynather"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2025-09-13:objectType=thread:nonce=d07245fc4e1f7bf2","notice_info":{"local_id":"11052953","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2025-09-13T20:57:05+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@jbowles\/115182829293380619"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/users\/rmd1023","displayName":"HTTP 1.1\/418 Old Teapot Typewriter Font","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/42273-original-tmp20231114180612.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/42273-96-20240123105332.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/42273-48-20240123105332.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/42273-24-20240123105332.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"42273"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/42273-96-20240123105332.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"She\/her pronouns. Comic relief, moral support, occasionally tells the packets where to go. Grumpy old queer married person in eastern Massachusetts. Generally wandering around feeling like I&#39;m secretly a cartoon of three raccoons in a trenchcoat trying to pass.  :donor:&quot;This is, I suppose, some kind of audio-vibratory physio-molecular transport device?&quot;","url":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@rmd1023","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"rmd1023","displayName":"HTTP 1.1\/418 Old Teapot Typewriter Font","note":"She\/her pronouns. Comic relief, moral support, occasionally tells the packets where to go. Grumpy old queer married person in eastern Massachusetts. Generally wandering around feeling like I&#39;m secretly a cartoon of three raccoons in a trenchcoat trying to pass.  :donor:&quot;This is, I suppose, some kind of audio-vibratory physio-molecular transport device?&quot;"}},"content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@wendynather\" class=\"u-url mention\">@wendynather<\/a> Interesting.  I had a bunch of knee-jerk \"no, that's not accurate\" reactions, but whether or not that's accurate on my part, it doesn't matter if this is that guy's experience and what he's been seeing. <\/p><p>I think guys are absolutely being shafted by this culture - I think top of the heap is ways that men are taught that anger is the only acceptable emotion to express and the lack of opportunity for boys\/young men to learn more\/better conflict resolution stuff. <\/p><p>And unfortunately, the men's groups most loudly talking about the ways things are difficult for men (MRA etc) tend towards the incredibly toxic.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-07-13:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/users\/rmd1023\/statuses\/115174856155810263","object":{"id":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/users\/rmd1023\/statuses\/115174856155810263","objectType":"note","content":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@wendynather\" class=\"u-url mention\">@wendynather<\/a> Interesting.  I had a bunch of knee-jerk \"no, that's not accurate\" reactions, but whether or not that's accurate on my part, it doesn't matter if this is that guy's experience and what he's been seeing. <\/p><p>I think guys are absolutely being shafted by this culture - I think top of the heap is ways that men are taught that anger is the only acceptable emotion to express and the lack of opportunity for boys\/young men to learn more\/better conflict resolution stuff. <\/p><p>And unfortunately, the men's groups most loudly talking about the ways things are difficult for men (MRA etc) tend towards the incredibly toxic.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@rmd1023\/115174856155810263","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"inReplyTo":{"objectType":"note","id":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/users\/wendynather\/statuses\/115174739539703845","url":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@wendynather\/115174739539703845"}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/person","id":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/users\/wendynather"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2025-09-13:objectType=thread:nonce=d07245fc4e1f7bf2","notice_info":{"local_id":"11052897","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2025-09-13T20:48:58+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@rmd1023\/115174856155810263"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/users\/wendynather","displayName":"Wendy Nather","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/65735-original-tmp20260202201422.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":400,"height":400},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/65735-96-20260202210421.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/65735-48-20260202210421.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/65735-24-20260202210421.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"65735"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/65735-96-20260202210421.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Recovering industry analyst, research director &amp; CISO. Senior Fellow at @AtlanticCouncil @CyberStatecraft. Single, childful cat lady.General Content Warnings: snark, bad words, even worse puns, occasional flashes of borrowed insight, plugging of selected $employer events and publications, random brain radio songs, multilingual commentary BECOME UNPROMPTABLENote: Sufficiently advanced shitposting is indistinguishable from thought leadership. \u2014 @jwgoerlich","url":"https:\/\/infosec.exchange\/@wendynather","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"wendynather","displayName":"Wendy Nather","note":"Recovering industry analyst, research director &amp; CISO. Senior Fellow at @AtlanticCouncil @CyberStatecraft. 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