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Not affiliated, but has serve me pretty well. \ud83d\ude0e<\/p> Uses email as the protocol for communication. And barrier to entry is relatively low. If using what they call a #chatmail<\/a> server anyway. \ud83d\ude05<\/p> https:\/\/delta.chat\/en\/<\/a><\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-07-13:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/fosstodon.org\/users\/zeab\/statuses\/114736111046596796","object":{"id":"https:\/\/fosstodon.org\/users\/zeab\/statuses\/114736111046596796","objectType":"note","content":" @cassidy<\/a> have you tried #deltachat<\/a>? Not affiliated, but has serve me pretty well. \ud83d\ude0e<\/p> Uses email as the protocol for communication. And barrier to entry is relatively low. 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E-mail address is not a problem because you can always create a new address on any chatmail server. You don't need to use the address that you consider your \"identity\". In fact, we recommend using a dedicated mailbox for chatting.
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E-mail address is not a problem because you can always create a new address on any chatmail server. You don't need to use the address that you consider your \"identity\". In fact, we recommend using a dedicated mailbox for chatting.
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