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They will fight back. And that was the loop of the narrative. They are drug addicts; therefore, they are armed. Because they are drug addicts, they will fight back. And, if they fight back, they must die.\" #trauma<\/a> #journalism<\/a> #warOnDrugs<\/a> #Philippines<\/a> #policeViolence<\/a> #drugWar<\/a> #stateViolence<\/a> #killings<\/a> #security<\/a> #populism<\/a> #commOdon<\/a> @socialpsych<\/a> #resentment<\/a> #NewYorker<\/a> #Duterte<\/a> #neighborhood<\/a> #institutions<\/a> #confidence<\/a> #anger<\/a> #violence<\/a> #narrative<\/a> #storyTelling<\/a><\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2026-06-29:notice-source:ActivityPub","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ActivityPub"}},"id":"https:\/\/techhub.social\/users\/estelle\/statuses\/111266293777244209","object":{"id":"https:\/\/techhub.social\/users\/estelle\/statuses\/111266293777244209","objectType":"note","content":" \"Duterte said: you can kill legally because they might fight back. They will fight back. And that was the loop of the narrative. They are drug addicts; therefore, they are armed. Because they are drug addicts, they will fight back. And, if they fight back, they must die.\" #trauma<\/a> #journalism<\/a> #warOnDrugs<\/a> #Philippines<\/a> #policeViolence<\/a> #drugWar<\/a> #stateViolence<\/a> #killings<\/a> #security<\/a> #populism<\/a> #commOdon<\/a> @socialpsych<\/a> #resentment<\/a> #NewYorker<\/a> #Duterte<\/a> #neighborhood<\/a> #institutions<\/a> #confidence<\/a> #anger<\/a> #violence<\/a> #narrative<\/a> #storyTelling<\/a><\/p>","url":"https:\/\/techhub.social\/@estelle\/111266293777244209","status_net":{"notice_id":null},"tags":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"anger"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"commodon"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"confidence"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"drugwar"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"duterte"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"institutions"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"journalism"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"killings"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"narrative"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"neighborhood"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"newyorker"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"philippines"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"policeviolence"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"populism"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"resentment"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"security"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"stateviolence"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"storytelling"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"violence"},{"objectType":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/object\/hashtag","displayName":"warondrugs"}]},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:gnusocial.jp,2025-04-16:objectType=thread:nonce=d4a01ace0862ec83","notice_info":{"local_id":"9610412","source":"ActivityPub"}},"published":"2025-04-16T20:03:58+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"GNU social JP","url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/techhub.social\/@estelle\/111266293777244209"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/techhub.social\/users\/estelle","displayName":"Estelle Platini","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/237921-original-tmp20240125082125.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":185,"height":185},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/237921-96-20240125082125.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/237921-48-20240125082125.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/237921-24-20240125082125.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"237921"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gnusocial.jp\/avatar\/237921-96-20240125082125.webp","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/webp","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Here I study a question: "How to subdue people?"I discuss sociology of dominations and history of reputation.(I purposely do not propagate news.)","url":"https:\/\/techhub.social\/@estelle","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"estelle","displayName":"Estelle Platini","note":"Here I study a question: "How to subdue people?"I discuss sociology of dominations and history of reputation.(I purposely do not propagate news.)"}},"content":" William Hirst says that a #narrative<\/a> that leaves out information \u201cinduces forgetting of the unmentioned material.\u201d<\/p> #Talking<\/a> about other parts of the story actively leads people to forget what is not discussed. \u201cWe seem to have a brain that is designed to build a collective memory around collective remembering and collective forgetting,\u201d he explains. \u201cWhy? 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https:\/\/www.newyorker.com\/news\/q-and-a\/a-journalist-exposes-the-philippines-extralegal-killings<\/a><\/p>
https:\/\/www.newyorker.com\/news\/q-and-a\/a-journalist-exposes-the-philippines-extralegal-killings<\/a><\/p>
* but we are good at explaining after-the-fact why we made a decision \u2013 a pattern called rationalization.<\/p>
To convince,
* you must address: \"What's in it for me?\" \u2013 requires empathy;
* you can use the values of your opponent. (Loyalty or fairness?)<\/p>
Another pattern: \"Give it a try\"
Another pattern: listen
Another pattern: ask for something personal<\/p>
* but we are good at explaining after-the-fact why we made a decision \u2013 a pattern called rationalization.<\/p>
To convince,
* you must address: \"What's in it for me?\" \u2013 requires empathy;
* you can use the values of your opponent. (Loyalty or fairness?)<\/p>
Another pattern: \"Give it a try\"
Another pattern: listen
Another pattern: ask for something personal<\/p>